A guide to starting nursery

Going back to work can be a stressful time for you, not least because you may worry how your baby will settle at nursery. But with a little preparation and good communication with the staff at Harpole Day Nursery, you may find that your fears were unfounded.

So for those of you who are preparing for your little one’s first day in childcare, here are our top tips.

1. Arrange for pre-start visits. These might be referred to as “Trials” or “Stay-and-Plays.” If your baby is unused to the nursery environment, these visits will reassure you both.  Use these “Stay-and-Plays” as a way of communicating your baby’s routine to the staff. The staff should gather information such as nap-times and bottle feeds at this point.

2. On the first proper nursery day, show your baby how excited you are about their chance to have this experience. Try not to show your own anxiety. It’s stressful (for you!) when you leave your baby at nursery for the first few times, but put your happy face on if you can. Your baby will settle better if they know that you are comfortable with the situation.

3. Bring with you any comfort items from home that your child is used to having around, such as a favourite toy or cuddle blanket.

4. When you arrive, have a little chat with your child’s key person or room leader but try not to draw out the hand-over process.

5. If your child should be distressed, tell them confidently that you will be back later to pick them up. This is the most important lesson that your baby will learn – that you will always, always come back.

6. And if your baby settles to playing straight away, try not to be offended! A nursery is a new and exciting place, and many children thrive here from the beginning. It doesn’t mean that they don’t love you or miss you – it means that you are a fantastic parent who’s raising a confident little person!

7. Call the nursery after an hour or so, to check how your baby has settled. Ask them to call you if they are concerned at all.Don’t be worried about keeping in close contact with the nursery over the first few weeks. This is a period of change for both you and your baby, and any good nursery will do their best to help you with the transition. Remember that the staff are very experienced in helping new babies to settle, and your little one is in good hands.

 

A few extra tips for parents

  • If you need to have a little weep, remember that the manager’s office is usually well-stocked with tissues. You won’t be the first or last parent to find the first day at nursery difficult, even if your baby loves it!
  • If you need to have a little weep, remember that the manager’s office is usually well-stocked with tissues. You won’t be the first or last parent to find the first day at nursery difficult, even if your baby loves it!
  • Plan to have something to do after your first drop-off: if you aren’t going straight to work, then perhaps arrange to meet a friend for a coffee, or head to the gym.

 

At pick up time, appreciate that your baby may be experiencing a range of emotions when he or she sees you, from excitement through to tiredness. Young children may express this with tears, as they won’t have the language to communicate all their feelings – don’t assume that this means they’ve been upset all day. Trust what the staff are telling you.

 

 

A guide to starting nursery